I’m tired of being harassed in ask box by anons..

I don’t understand how people go crazy and nasty for few words… especially since I have the impression that there is not much tolerance in the English vocabulary.. all the words seem racist :
- “Oriental” is racist.. (but this is the contrary of occidental…right ?)
- “Gypsy” is racist.. (the real french word is “gitan” but “gitan” is absolutely not racist in France, I have many gitan friends, and “gitan” it’s different of “romani/roms” and “tzigane”…moreover the “gitan” people don’t like to be compare to the romani/roms…so I thought that the perfect equivalent was “gypsy”…Lady Gaga has made a beautiful song which was called “Gypsy”…but you said it’s a slur ? …why ? Explain me…)
But, I can understand that maybe “oriental” and “gyspy” can by racist in your culture… but why Chocolate and Cookies are suppose to offend people ?
I absolutely hate to use the terms "white people” and “black people”, especially the term “black people” because in my point of view the “black people” are not black but brown, so give them a darker color than their real color.. I find it’s wicked… And to not offend them I prefer compare their skin with positive things, like chocolate ! …it’s better than being compared with the shit right ? …right ? … tell me that it’s right… please..
Also I saw that you say a lot “dark skin”/“dark people”, but it shocks me to call them “dark” because dark = darkness.. but it’s more racist to compare brown people with chocolate than compare brown people with darkness ? I really don’t understand…
And when I say “tanned people” I was told that I “whitewash” them..
I’m really lost between my French culture and the English culture, I use Google Translate … (but I feel that Google Translate is as lost as me x_x) … so it’s very hard for me to know what is racist and what is not racist… I don’t want to offend anyone :’( !… I love everyone T-T ♥ …but I accumulate lot of errors… and it frustrates me…
Especially when you tell me that “chocolate is racist”.. and all sorts of other delicious things… it really shocks me… if you don’t like being compare to positive things… what are the real good - english - words to describes the different kind of populations ?
It frustrates me to lose followers and be hating every day because I’m misunderstood.. (well I better understand Raven now.. haha^^)
All I ask are answers and corrections, instead of nasty messages which say that I’m racist…bird shit…mayonnaise… (but I love mayonnaise.. ‘-’) …could you do that for me please ?
I said I don’t care about the anons, but I’m really confused and sorry..


